Get Yourself New Year Ready!

Jolly festivities, wrapping presents, kissing under the mistletoe and all that movie magic has yet again passed and we have to prep for a new start.
A new beginning, huh?
Although I don’t tend to be the person who starts a whole new life every year and fails to live up to the set goals nearly the second week of January, I love to do some of the things that let me reflect and let go of the past year and welcome the new one approaching.
And I welcome you to do the same or at least get inspired and tailor these activities according to your own needs, wishes and possibilities. Let’s not forget we are all so very different. ☺
As I am a true believer that what we see on the outside is yet another reflection of our inner world, I enjoy using it in my own favour, so just after Christmas has passed, I go about my annual routines.
Starting with cleaning up your home is something I love doing, it gives an immediate feeling of freshness and having my life together.
Immersing myself in cleaning out the closets, washing the floors with a wet broom, tidying the kitchen cabinets, defrosting the freezer, wiping all the dusty surfaces and corners, ironing, changing the bedsheets, donating or throwing out everything that no longer serves us and taking care of everything that still does.
It’s a huge clean-out, not the kind I perform in the springtime. I go all in on this just before the New Year’s and it feels SO good afterwards.
On this note, I also clean my workspace and technologies. Going through my phone and computer, deleting whatever has to go and decluttering the big files to an external memory of whatever kind, creating folders and having some kind of system.
Some find this funny, but in a world almost ruled by technology, I believe it’s absolutely logical that if we spend so much time in front of our screens, we also make this space tidy, clean and easy to navigate.
Another thing I LOVE dedicating time to before the year turns is reflection. In my case, written reflection in my notebook. It’s something I also mentioned in my previous blog before making the chocolate bark recipe. In case you haven’t tried this SUPER DELICIOUS stuff yet, here is the link:
https://rumicosmetiques.co.uk/blogs/news/merry-christmas-easy-bark-recipe
Sweets always throw me off track, but back to the reflection part, haha! If you have never done so or even if you are a regular guest at the journalling desk, try answering these questions this time (inspired from a podcast I listened to yesterday):
- What made you feel most happy this year?
- What made you unhappy these past 12 months?
- What’s the biggest lesson you learned this year?
- What do you wish you would have done more of this year?
- What’s something you want to do less of next year?
- What was your biggest success this year?
- What was a moment you failed this year?
- What is something you want to learn next year?
- What is your favourite way to refuel?
On this note, in the New Year of 2022 I hope you find more time for what makes you happy and give less of your energy to what drains you, focusing more on what really matters. I hope you heal from what hurt you and celebrate your every win, big or small.
I hope you compare yourself less with others and more with who you were yesterday. I hope you find peace with what angers, triggers or annoys you and create joy instead. I hope you rewrite the narrative for your own paths that do not lead you to joy, love and success, whatever it means to YOU.
I hope you focus on yourself, learn not only to give, but also learn to receive. I hope you grow and your soul flourishes.
All the love & thank you for a great year,
COMMENTS ON THIS POST ( 5 )

Susan
31 Dec, 2021
Thank you Kate, I so did enjoy reading your message. For me this time of year always brings back fond memories of family and friends, but due to Covid so much as changed. This year has been especially hard for me with some health issues, but I am a positive person and I know things can only get better in 2022. Having just enrolled in another pilates class for the New Year which I enjoy so much. Thank you again and Happy New Year. x

LESLEY
31 Dec, 2021
Thanks Kate for such a lovely message. 2021 hasn’t been the best year for me. I lost my mum in June and although she was the huge age of 104 I thinks somewhere I thought she’d go on forever. I miss visiting her and holding her hand. And I think of her every day. I never thought I would but I do.
Because of COVID I’ve not been able to see mum family and granddaughters as much as I used to and that really hurts. I miss them hugely. They did come for Christmas which was wonderful but could only stay a couple of days.
I want 2022 to be a good better year for everyone. We’ve all been through so much with this virus. I’ve started to dread crowds and groups of people and have a fear of things I never had before. I’m no spring chicken 69 in January but this year I want to succeed in my writing become published somehow and grow into a better person. I will answer all those questions tomorrow and take one step closer to becoming a better individual.
Thank you Kate and Happy New Year to you.

Sue
31 Dec, 2021
Thank you I love your message and it’s made me seriously think ! This last year has been hard for me as I had a stroke just days before Christmas last year which has changed my life ! Some days I struggle and on few occasions I’m not so bad. I felt I’d let myself down but this New Year I’m going to be much more positive as not being will only make matters worse. I will answer your questions in a notebook I’m keeping and then I’ll look forward to a new and happier 2022. With love x

Iris Henderson
31 Dec, 2021
A lovely message from you Kate. Actually it feels in some parts that might have written it as because I am a widow of 18 years now I find New Year’s Eve not that exciting. I have become used to being on my own on this particular night as my two daughters and their families are usually booked up going to friends for meals etc. I also then think about turfing out stuff that I really do not want. In fact, I started doing that a little the other day. I shall answer those questions when I have thought about them as in the meantime I am just preparing meal for the family tomorrow. I wish you all a very Happy and Healthy New Year. Love from Iris
Jan Harrison
01 Jan, 2022
Happy New Year to you all. I have only just found this site and the products which I have ordered, but I feel that in a sense I have found my people♥️ I have read your posts and each one has touched a note with me, and I wish you all well for the new year. My life is changing as my five children are now grown, my long term relationship ended in 2017 and only now am I starting to feel more positive to be alone to enjoy my own life, whilst supporting my wonderful family in their adult lives. I shall definitely have a go at answering the questions you suggest, and move forward with journaling and other self care ideas this year. Jan 😊